Monday Contest: A South Korean ‘Pride & Prejudice’

I am a sucker for love stories, and a sucker for one-choice-changes-everything stories. When I read this review of Samuel Park’s This Burns My Heart—one of the featured novels in our debut roundup—I knew I had to get my hands on it because it fits into both of those categories.

I interviewed Park about the novel, and here’s a plot summary, in his own words: “A young woman marries the wrong man and learns to live with the consequences of that choice.” He thinks of his novel as “Pride and Prejudice in South Korea.” In her effusive review, Rebecca Shapiro says it’s “a love story so simple and universal that, in many ways, it could be set anywhere.”

The story begins in South Korea of the 1960s, when Soo-Ja Choi—who dreams of being a diplomat—realizes that she married the wrong man. She felt trapped by custom to marry an appropriate suitor . . . but she is actually in love with Yul, a handsome acquaintance.

Here’s an excerpt, to give you a taste of Park’s lovely writing:

Soo-Ja’s heart leapt and then sunk. But she knew that she had no right to be disappointed. She was the one who turned away from him when he asked her to marry him, who refused when he first held out his hand and said, Try me, and be happy.

Chamara, Soo-Ja. Chamara,” said Yul. Chamara. What is the word that comes closest to it? Soo-Ja wondered. To stand it, to bear it, to grit your teeth and not cry out? To hold on, to wait until the worst is over? There is no other word for it, no way to translate it. It is not a word. It is a way to console yourself. He is not just telling her to stand the pain, but giving her comfort, the power to do so. Chamara is an incantation, and if she listens to its sound, she believes that she can do it, that she will push through this sadness. And if she is strong about it, she’ll be rewarded in the end. It is a way of saying, I know, I feel it, too. This burns my heart, too.

Want to read more? Enter to win your own copy by following these directions:

TO ENTER: Leave a comment with the name of your favorite unrequited/tragic/or otherwise heartwrenching love story.

CONTEST DETAILS: The prize is a hardcover of This Burns My Heart by Samuel Park. One winner will be chosen using random.org from among the responses sent by 5 p.m. Central Time on August 5. Prizes must be shipped to a North American address.

ETA: Congrats to our winner, Lynn! Her heart-wrenching pick of the summer is One Summer by David Baldacci. She says, “It touches your heart!”

Contest is now closed.

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129 Responses to Monday Contest: A South Korean ‘Pride & Prejudice’

  1. Tanya says:

    Gone With the Wind

  2. Catherine says:

    “The Art of Racing in the Rain” by Garth Stein. Either human or canine, when two souls are matched, there is no greater love….even in tradegy.

  3. Yvonne J says:

    My favorite would have to be the enduring love story of Jamie and Claire Fraser in Diana Gabaldon’s Outlander Series.

  4. Laurie Blum says:

    Next To Love by Feldman

  5. Clare says:

    The Distant Summer by Sarah Patterson

  6. bess says:

    My favorite is still Jane Eyre

  7. Barbara Ann says:

    Dr. Zhivago by Boris Pasternak

  8. Janet Nydegger says:

    One Day by David Nicholls

  9. Carol M says:

    Love Story by Erich Segal

  10. Sandee61 says:

    I just finished reading an older book, but a wonderful romantic read, titled “My Dearest Cecelia” by Diane Haeger. If you loved “Gone with the Wind”, another favorite of mine, then read this one.

  11. Debbie says:

    “With a Hammer for My Heart” by George Ella Lyon

  12. lovey says:

    Nothing can beat Love Story!

  13. Mel K. says:

    SARATOGA TRUNK by Edna Ferber

  14. anne says:

    Keeping Time by Stacey McGlynn. Memorable and beautiful.

  15. Sandra Gorton says:

    My all time favorite love story is “Gone With the Wind.”

  16. Maria says:

    Emmeline by Judith Rossner.

  17. Lori says:

    Gone with the Wind is still the best for me.

  18. Jennifer Lee says:

    My favorite love story of all time is “Love’s Tender Fury” by Jennifer Wilde. What this woman goes through is amazing. How she perseveres!!
    I wasn’t a romance reader until I read this one. Now I buy every copy I find to give to my friends, it’s that good!

  19. A Thaxton says:

    I would love to read this book, my all time favorite is Love Story!

  20. Shannon J. says:

    Granny Dan by Danielle Steel!

  21. Rachel B. says:

    The Arcane series by J. Krantz

  22. Carolyn Moy says:

    My favorite is the love story between Joanna and Llewelyn in Sharon Kay Penman’s Here Be Dragons. Thanks for a great contest!

  23. Mona Garg says:

    The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

  24. Marilyn says:

    I always think of Love Story by Eric Segal, as well.

  25. Jacquelyn Doty says:

    I loved the book by Margaret Leroy “The Soldier’s Wife.

  26. Dennis says:

    “The Moment” It’s a new book, but the sad story will grab you!

  27. Tillie says:

    The JD Robb series is the best. You actually can see true love and how that love helps to develop the characters. She’s up to 31 in the series and another coming next month. I can hardly wait. I put down everything else I’m reading at the time to pick up the newest one!

  28. Beth says:

    I would have to go with “Gone with the Wind”

  29. sharon says:

    love story comes to my mind, not that it’s my absolute fav but a good one

  30. colleen says:

    Firefly Lane by Kristen Hannah

  31. andrew says:

    Patricia Nell Warren’s The Front Runner

  32. Kate Z says:

    Possession by A.S. Byatt

  33. Laurie W. says:

    The Time Travelers Wife.

  34. MargB says:

    In a Maine frame of mind? Emmeline by Judith Rossner. A true story!

  35. Linda Bentzen says:

    Claude and Camille has been my favorite love story for some time. Thank you for this opportunity.

  36. My favorite unrequited love story is Wuthering Heights.

  37. Kathy Sell says:

    Ride the Wind by Lucia St Clair Robson

  38. Lucy says:

    My favorite enduring love story has to be Wuthering Heights. Cathy & Heathcliff have a love that’s eternal. Thank you.

    makeupgirl21@comcast.net

  39. William Shakespeare’s, Romeo and Juliet, has all the elements that make a great love story.

  40. Katherine says:

    “The Gift of the Magi” by O. Henry

  41. Joyce Best says:

    Wuthering Heights.

  42. Linda Smith says:

    Gone with the Wind still does it for me.

  43. Barbara Kirch says:

    My favorite love story is Gone With the Wind!

  44. Belinda Mathison says:

    My favorite love story is Pride and Prejudice. I think I would love to read this book!

  45. Judy Willhoite says:

    The Thorn Bird

  46. Susan says:

    The French Lieutenant’s Woman and Dr. Zhivago do it for me!

  47. Judy Willhoite says:

    Colleen McCullough’s “The Thorn Bird” is a favorite love story of mine.

  48. Hope Warren says:

    Tess of the d’Urbervilles (Thomas Hardy)

  49. Martha says:

    A Rose for the Crown by Anne Easter Smith
    Historical and wonderful, you can’t read this without a box of tissues.

  50. Nita says:

    “The Thorn Birds”. Wonderful book.

  51. Melinda says:

    The magnificent, “Dr. Zhivago.”

  52. Diane says:

    Atonement by Ian McEwan

  53. Nancy says:

    It would be the Time Traveler’s Wife.

  54. Kathy Vogel says:

    “The Notebook”
    “Hannah’s List”
    “Suzanne’s Diary For Nicholas”

  55. Joan says:

    Exodus by Leon Uris

  56. Connie says:

    Any book by Nicholas Sparks. They will make you cry..especially “The Notebook”.

  57. Will says:

    My Favorite hands down is Wuthering Heights,and the book was great but the older version movie with Lawrence Olivier, was so good and the love he had for Cathy and she for him was beyond life.

  58. Judith says:

    Dr. Zhivago is my all time favorite,the book and movie both were wonderful..and Lara’s Love theme is one of my favorite also..I watch this often..

  59. Nicole says:

    All time favorite love story, for me is Gone With the Wind.

  60. Maureen Stanford says:

    There are so many great ones but this year for me it’s Fortune’s Rocks by Anita Shreve. I enjoyed it so much I read it twice!

  61. Ivy says:

    Cabin in the Sky

  62. April says:

    One Day by David Nicholls.

  63. Emily T says:

    LoveStory

  64. Rose Breneman says:

    I just finished reading “One Summer” by David Baldacci. I enjoyed
    this book very much, but it was sad.
    Rose Breneman

  65. angela k stewart says:

    Jane Eyre for sure!!

  66. Tricia Douglas says:

    The love protrayed in The Invisible Bridge is strong and longlived. I was amazed at how love could survive even with the tragedies the characters had to live through.

  67. Rebecca Booth says:

    What an amazing thrilling Victorian romance the author, Lilly Gayle, wove in the book, SLIGHTLY TARNISHED, and what a love story!
    Nicole Keller, the heroine, is a very headstrong and independent young lady, who has to step up to the plate and support her mother and herself due to a sinking ship which takes the life of her beloved father and her childhood sweetheart, Charlie. The loss of the ship and it’s contents is the last straw to a failing business venture which cost’s Nicole and her mother their Portsmouth Island, North Carolina home and her family’s means of support.
    After a letter from her estranged uncle, Nicole and her mother travel to England to reunite with her mother’s family even though her grandfather disowned her mother for running away and marrying her father. Circumstances weren’t as they seemed in this Victorian English London town and Ncole decides to return to Portsmouth with her mother after she discovers the plans her uncle has by arranging a marriage to the Marquis of Bowerstock, a wealthy monarch much older than her father.
    With their few possessions packed into a carpetbag, Nicole tows her mother through the streets of London in the dead of night to avoid detection. When a dirty matchstick girl tried to rip the carpetbag from her hand, a street urchin, Ralph, came to her aid, and after seeing that she is sick due to the stench of the London streets, offers to help her for a shilling a day.
    Through a chance encounter with Chad Masters, the Earl of Gilchrest, who promises to help the three after recognizing Nicole and her mother. He helps them and takes them to Gilchrest Castle. When Nicole arrives to the castle, she smells the ocean which reminds her of her North Carolina seaside home.
    Chad and Nicole decide to marry for the convenience she needed and Chad needed a wife. After the marriage, Chad and Nicole have secrets and conflicts with many twists and turns that will keep a reader enthralled and drawn into the many adventures that captures my interest.
    Lilly’s book is a very well-written saga that has me hooked with romantic tension throughout. One example scene between the couple that just transports me into the scene was a discription of a horse ride and the encounter on the beach which swept me away as if I were present. Any woman would want to be in Nicole’s position at that time and place.
    A twist for Chad is a secret hidden in the Gilchrest tower that has him questioning whether to reveal to Nicole or not. Will he or won’t he, that is the question? Is money the root of evil? Lilly’s book answers that tell all question, too.
    I enjoyed the characters, the settings, and the plot immensely. What a blast I had reading SLIGHTLY TARNISHED.

    • Sheila Silver Halet says:

      Rebecca: (also a great book)

      You wrote a wonderful book review…I love those kinds of stories ….hopefully I’ll get to it in this life.

      Thank you!!!!

  68. Susan says:

    Romeo and Juliet is the ultimate tragic live story

  69. Vicki Muzzy says:

    Bid Time Return by Richard Matheson. Having the perfect love and then having it snatched away from you — that’s a most tragic love story.

  70. mwayout says:

    I would have to say my all time favorite love story is Gone With the Wind. But the Outlander series by Diana Galbaldon runs a very close second.

  71. Mary Norton says:

    The best love story ever, The Horse Whisperer. I still tear up when I think of the ending.

  72. Alexis says:

    Message in a Bottle – Nicholas Sparks

  73. Susan says:

    Anna Karenina and Doctor Zhivago

  74. Julienne says:

    The tragic love story of Father Ralph de Bricassart and Meggie Cleary in The Thorn Birds by Collen McCullough is my personal favorite. I loved both the book and movie adaptation.

  75. sharon says:

    Gone with the Wind!

  76. GSD says:

    Dream Story by Arthur Schnitzler

  77. Cheryl says:

    The Walk- Richard Paul Evans
    A must read! Along with the sequel, Miles to go. This series could take years but who cares, just waiting for book 3!

  78. Elaine says:

    Gone with the wind.

  79. Michele says:

    If you haven’t read Julie and Romeo by Jeanne Ray add it to your list. It’s a light love story about two mature adults and that is so rare. Very enjoyable.

  80. Christy says:

    My favorite would have to be GONE WITH THE WIND

  81. Marie Elena Monaco says:

    The Pilot’s Wife by Anita Shreve and Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand by Helen Simonson.

  82. Max says:

    I like Lonesome Dove.

  83. michele says:

    oh, the greatest love story of all time has to “Gone With The Wind”!!!

  84. Cynthia says:

    Only one? How about one author? It would have to be Jane Austen … but Daphne du Maurier and her great book “Rebecca” comes a close second.

  85. Kim Heinrichs says:

    Ian McEwan’s “Atonement” had me aching for the young couple kept apart by class, misperceptions and war.

  86. Max says:

    The Hunchback of Notre Dame

  87. Rosanne says:

    I would have to agree with many of the readers comment written here. Gone With The Wind is my favorite book and definitely the most unbelievable love story ever.

  88. Cindy says:

    The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

  89. Gretchen Carolan says:

    It is so hard to name just one but the one that came to my mind was “The French Gardener” by Santa Montefiore.

  90. Sarah says:

    The great gatsby

  91. Babette Neil says:

    Gone With The Wind is the best of the best. Nothing will ever beat it.

  92. SALLY says:

    Clare Fergusson and Russ Van Alstynein the novels by Julia Spenser Fleming Is it a hopeless till death do us part?

  93. Sheila Silver Halet says:

    Fannie Hurst’s – Imitation of Life….wonderful writer…dying to read the Help but do not have extra money to buy at this time. Currently reading Henry James Nouvelles including Turn of the Screw and Daisy Miller. Loved Washington Square.
    Shalom Y’All!!!

  94. Lisa Roberts says:

    The Thorn Birds

  95. MJ Logan says:

    I loved The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein. There are several examples of love in that story.

  96. I will never forget my emotion when i finished “A Farewell To Arms,” by Earnest Hemingway. Sobbing, i threw the book across the room and cried on my bed. Tragic love is memorable.

  97. Gone With the Wind will always be my very favorite love story.

  98. Marybeth Mank says:

    I will give you two for the price of one! The first one is ‘The Saffron Kitchen’ by Yasmin Crowther. This is her debut novel which you should LOVE! The second book is ‘Midnight at the Dragon Cafe’ by Judy Fong Bates. Before this novel, she published a book of short stories and now has a new novel available [entitled 'The Year of Finding Memory']. The covers of these books caught my attention and reading the flyleafs of both books sealed the deal. Both stories encompass betrayal, wasted lives, cultural as well as class differences, lack of communication, and (of course) love found, lost and found again…well, sort of, anyway. The first book is set in both England and Iran and you will be transfixed by this story. The second books starts out in 1950s Communist China and moves to the Canadian province of Ontario. I have to say that both novels were so engrossing, it was difficult to put them down, even when the stories grew too difficult and painful to read. The detail in both books is absolutely stunning. I hope someone else enjoys these books as much as I did. :-)

  99. ECP says:

    So torn. Thomas Hardy (“Far From the Madding Crowd”)? D.H. Lawrence (“Women in Love”)? But I’ll say “A Very Long Engagement” by Sebastien Japrisot.

  100. John W says:

    My favorite would be The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger.

  101. Melissa says:

    The Time Traveler’s Wife.

    Romeo and Juliet.

  102. Hannah B says:

    The Bridges of Madison County

  103. Aletha Hicks says:

    My favorite will always be The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough. I also lie The Other Side of Midnight by Sidney Sheldon.

  104. Angel says:

    Jane Eyre
    Thornbirds
    Hunchback of Notre Dame
    Les Miserables

  105. Connie Fischer says:

    Absolutely nothing can top “Gone With the Wind!”

  106. Gail Spitzer says:

    Gone With the Wind, of course.

  107. Debbie Grimm says:

    Rhett and Scarlett…….you just have to believe that she will win him back someday! :)

  108. Bridges of Madison County

  109. Jeanne finley says:

    Outlander by. Diana. Gabalon. I went to. Scotland to find. Jamie.

  110. cathy bishop says:

    gone with the wind,

  111. Jeanne bean says:

    I loved. Outlander by Diana. Gabalon.

  112. carrie says:

    My favorite heartwrenching Love story is definitely Jane Eyre. The passion between Jane and Rochester is so intense.

  113. cheryl says:

    I don’t really have a favorite romance novel, I love all modern romances mostly!

  114. Like Water for Chocolate

  115. Nancy says:

    “Atonement” by Ian McEwan is one of the most tragic and beautiful love stories I’ve ever written. Robbie and Cecilia will break your heart.

  116. Denise Putz says:

    Romeo & Juliet – the original unrequieted love story!

  117. jan metivier says:

    i liked the book LOVELY BONES –not a romance but a love story nevertheless.

  118. Tracy W. says:

    The Gargoyle by Andrew Davidson!

  119. pat weaver says:

    Eternal on the Water by Joseph Monniger. I suggested this book for our book club. Everyone loved it. Joseph was invited to our book club and since living in New England he made the trip to visit, what a treat!!!

  120. Sonya says:

    My favorite tragic love story is “Romeo and Julliet.”

  121. Kerri Skrudland says:

    People have nominated a lot of good ones. I’d go along with The Notebook and The Time Traveler’s Wife.

  122. Lynn Maniak says:

    I read “One Summer” by David Baldacci this season, and it touches your heart!

  123. cynthia cooper says:

    An oldie but goodie…Gone with the Wind